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Many people will criticize the commercializing of love like this, but the gift of love can be and should be top ways to make money online celebrated in all forms, based on both the giver and receiver. Some will object to the man–in many cases–spending thousands for a diamond to give a woman. But the fact is that spending money is one of top ways to make money online the easiest ways to express love, and sometimes it’s not a genuine expression. This is often overlooked, particularly by those who are not able to spend money top ways to make money online in this way and by those who don’t have the chance to receive pricey trinkets . But I repeat: it is very easy–especially at certain socioeconomic levels–to simply splash money on your mate or your children.

I stress this because I encourage broad thinking and looking top ways to make money online at things from various perspectives. It is critical to get out of one’s zone and try hard to get exposure to other top ways to make money online zones. As a person who is heavily steeped in comparative cultures top ways to make money online and evolutionary psychology, it is scary to read and listen to those who top ways to make money online can only view situations from ONE perspective.

Darren gave me a stately, beautiful diamond engagement ring when he proposed to me, and I’m wearing it now as I write this. Its clarity and quality are just as dazzling today as top ways to make money online it was the day he gave it to me. I appreciate it just as much because I cherish him top ways to make money online as the quality man he is. Over the last almost 2 decades, I’ve worn this ring a lot–in the shower, even sometimes when I’m doing work around the house or trudging around the top ways to make money online farm (since I forget to take it off–lol) and it still looks sparkling new because it’s a ring of quality. Every time I look at this beautiful ring, I feel warm. It draws him close to me, no matter how many miles we are apart. The cost of the ring is not most important though. I would never wear a ring of any price from top ways to make money online a non-quality man or one I didn’t cherish because I would get no joy from it. I know this ring is a symbol of darren’s love and commitment to our union as man and top ways to make money online wife, and 18 years later, we’re still going strong. Sometimes, when we’ve had an argument or I’m miffed at him about whatever, I look at the ring and it softens my heart. LOL! Yes, he spent thousands on it because it was a symbol top ways to make money online of his belief in the substance of our union. It showed that he had vetted me and wanted to top ways to make money online make an investment in me, the other partner in our partnership.

A quality partner is like a financial investment that reaps top ways to make money online steady compound interest, so I stress quality a lot in my articles. Some of you might recall I’m the one who coined the term: the CQLL (compatible, quality , loving, lovable) mate. I’ve married and lived day in, day out with TWO quality men–darren and my ex-husband. I would try to walk on hot coals for both top ways to make money online of them, if necessary because if my feet became burned, I know that both of them would be there to top ways to make money online rub on the soothing cream, as long as it takes. LOL

I’m convinced we’re living in a twilight zone time period in american top ways to make money online culture. LOL my oldest son said that it’s always been like this, but he points out that barely anyone knew about it top ways to make money online before since there was no social media until recently. Okay . . . I would agree with that to an extent, but it’s obvious to those of us who’ve been around for several decades that the glue that’s kept the social fabric together has severely loosened. There is no unifying CULTURE most americans adhere to and top ways to make money online definitely not among black americans. Typical people are therefore operating like loose cannons.

As a student of male-female relationship dynamics and a cultural anthropology enthusiast, lifelong observer of all things cross-cultural and a holder of a college degree in this top ways to make money online fascinating discipline, I have noticed all of my life since the time top ways to make money online I became aware of the male-female dynamic, that given a choice, many men choose incompatible women as girlfriends and wives. Some men these days are so afraid they’ll choose the wrong woman until they don’t choose anyone. Let me point out that there’s nothing wrong with the average woman. There is still someone for everyone, however given a choice, average men almost always are more attracted to the least top ways to make money online compatible women! This means there’s a serious flaw in the CULTURE or a lack top ways to make money online of an uplifting CULTURE, or they’re not following the guidelines of the uplifting CULTURE, if it does exist. [read more…]

So along with her feminine desirability, he found her fascinating. She engaged his mind and his heart, and all else followed. As a mature and worldly woman, I’ve known for decades that men are wildly attracted to top ways to make money online and remain with women who can engage their minds and top ways to make money online keep it pointed at her. A smart man will stick like glue to a woman top ways to make money online like that. This is why I’ve virtually begged black woman in all of my blog top ways to make money online articles for over a decade to develop themselves to the top ways to make money online utmost in all kinds of ways. This is the greatest aphrodisiac because it will lure and top ways to make money online keep the man’s mind and heart forever. Not concerned about a man’s groin because the woman who has engaged a man’s mind and heart will always take priority in his top ways to make money online life.

This is why smart men–the men who matter–aren’t dazzled for more than a minute by the women top ways to make money online who carry themselves like the amber roses or kim-ks of the world enough to marry them or remain top ways to make money online committed to them. Let’s face it, the smarter men in any small or large region of top ways to make money online the world–the men who matter–won’t commit their heart and soul to women of that top ways to make money online type, and unless they’re suffering from a severe emotional deficit or mental disability top ways to make money online (or are drunk), they definitely and absolutely refuse to mingle their bloodline with top ways to make money online them (have children by them), or leave their legacy to them. OMG–NO!

This is not a put-down of women like amber rose or kim-K. There’ve always been and always will be women like them top ways to make money online in the world and those women offer what they can. No one should fault them for that. ‘A woman’s gotta do what a woman’s gotta do.’ it’s not their fault that the bottom-feeding, ghetto, aka coonish subculture that apparently most black american millennials (particularly prominent and a high proportion of other black american top ways to make money online males) subscribe to and have exalted and promoted to the world top ways to make money online these days–have turned women of this sort into icons of female top ways to make money online (wifely) desirability. Males in other groups use women like them for sex, but NOT for marriage, and this has always been the case. As a devotee of anthropology, there is rarely anything new under the sun. Male hormones have not changed one bit. It’s overwhelmingly the group of bottom-feeding black american adult-age males who have placed women like these women on top ways to make money online a pedestal and promoted them as having wifely and motherhood top ways to make money online traits. These males have championed these women in every media form top ways to make money online available to them because these males are severely defective/damaged in their thinking. So many black people (in particular) either refuse to or are unable to see that or top ways to make money online continue to overlook/forget that.

Unfortunately, this means that the vast majority of young black american top ways to make money online boys are strongly influenced by adult-aged black males in their social and media environment to top ways to make money online pursue the amber rose-kimk and other stripper type women as love-interests, serious partners, mothers of their children, or wives. It is just a fact that if even worms are top ways to make money online promoted and advertised enough, many people–of a certain type–will start viewing worms as a delicacy.

Sadly many black american women have entered the lowest period top ways to make money online of black american women’s existence because they try to look and behave like top ways to make money online the ambers and kim-ks in order to catch the eye of off-thinking black males. Beyond sad! This is the equivalent of a curse on black american top ways to make money online women. Black people can deny this all they want, but all anyone has to do is look at how top ways to make money online lowly black american women, who mainly chase after and desire these bottom feeding males–have sunk. A curse doesn’t get any worse than that–for any group of woman–because the status of any group of women (and their children) in the world is joined with the men with whom top ways to make money online those women choose to mingle. What’s most terrible about this is that the black american top ways to make money online women who don’t think like this or don’t do this have not found a clean, effective way to separate themselves from those who do.

Many black americans will dispute this and (some black american women have even wanted and actually tried top ways to make money online to literally hurt me for saying this.) they claim that even many non-black women want or prefer a bottom feeding black man. Yes, some white and other nonblack women choose to mingle with top ways to make money online bottom-feeding black males, but non-black women (particularly the white ones) have the white privilege that they later on use to top ways to make money online dust themselves off and say they went insane for a top ways to make money online minute. They are usually then forgiven by other whites and accepted top ways to make money online back among them. The population of black-white biracial children has grown astronomically and according to statistics top ways to make money online that I’ve cited here before, a high percentage (more than 80%) of black-white (and other) biracial children have been abandoned by their black fathers and top ways to make money online are now living with their non-black babymama moms on government subsidies. Or these mothers place their biracial children in adoption homes top ways to make money online and walk away from them because this is how some top ways to make money online non-black women get rid of the evidence of this insane top ways to make money online time in their lives. They get rid of their mistake and go on with top ways to make money online their lives. Others change their identity to an extent or hide their top ways to make money online past in other ways. Black women seldom have this privilege of hiding their past. Many other non-white women in world don’t have this privilege either and this is why they top ways to make money online steer clear of the bottom-feeder type men.

My husband and I are happily settled in socal. I’ve left the boarding school and am working at a top ways to make money online progressive school right near the shore outside LA. We are looking for an apt halfway between both our top ways to make money online jobs and closer to the beach. In a few weeks we’ll celebrate our 7th anniversary! I can hardly believe how fast it’s gone. He and I work really well together to accomplish our top ways to make money online goals and work towards our dreams.

I hope (I know) you and darren are enjoying life. I, too, meet black women my age who seem ‘bewildered’ by their social circumstances. They are still waiting for permission, to travel, to date, to try new hobbies. On the bright side, I see all kinds of black women in LA with top ways to make money online their partners, lots of asian male spouses, lots of quirky, artsy lovely young women enjoying life.

Congratulations on your upcoming 7th year marriage anniversary! Darren and I have been together for about 17 years top ways to make money online now. Marriage has its highs, and it has its lows, but if a woman has vetted her guy, and they’re both committed to building a lasting relationship, the rewards are so worth it. Tremendous, multi-layered benefits–most of which are invisible. It’s so hard to explain this to those who have top ways to make money online not found a CQLL partner and have not married. I have lately stopped trying.

So good to hear that many of those black women top ways to make money online in LA have caught the clue and are securing partners! I know that some of them will not always choose top ways to make money online the best quality men, but they can never learn to hit the ball if top ways to make money online they don’t practice swinging at it. LOL! NO woman needs to go through life unpartnered. After all, we know from evo-bio-anthropology that every woman can get a male, but not every male can get a female. This is true of 99.999% of the females and males of all species on earth.

Read about ‘some’ of the reasons why that ‘piece of paper’ is still pursued by so many of those who have top ways to make money online upper strata (middle class, upper middle class, wealthier) values. Some will say that these people marry because they can top ways to make money online afford to marry, but I say that these people are in the upper top ways to make money online strata and remain there for generations largely because they marry. I would certainly beg those in my lineage to keep top ways to make money online this in mind, no matter what naysayers may say about marriage. Another thing those in my lineage and anyone else who’s interested should know about me is that I enjoy top ways to make money online the benefits of being a member of an upper strata top ways to make money online class because I married and remain married, and satisfactorily so.

What do americans think about marriage? Studies indicate that having a happy marriage is one of top ways to make money online the most important desires of americans. However, more and more americans are becoming less likely to marry top ways to make money online or remain married. About 50% of american marriages end in divorce for multiple reasons, and some as vague as “irreconcilable differences”.

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