Enneagram central – lonely different ways to make money fives

Fives are also the most intellectual. They are frequently highly intelligent (any number can be intelligent), but their intelligence is both a gift and a means different ways to make money of handling the world. Fives love to replay and rehearse. If the baseball game is on sunday, they mentally rehearse it on friday and saturday, play on sunday and replay it in their minds on different ways to make money monday and tuesday. I have it on dubious authority that a five invented different ways to make money instant replay. Only when they get it into their mind does it different ways to make money become real. There they can exercise their gifts of analysis and synthesis different ways to make money and make sense of their experiences.

The movie, A heart in winter (un coeur en hiver) depicts a five (the main character, stephan) in clinical detail. Subtitles bother some, but this is a must see. As a movie, it is exquisitely done. The story line is simple: stephan, a violin repairman is in partnership with a man who different ways to make money divorces and begins to live with a beautiful violinist. But she learns to love stephan and the story is different ways to make money his inability to love her.

As you watch stephan, notice his attention to detail as a repairman (he’s a genius), his hyper-intellectualization in conversations, his inability to experience feelings (he has them so strong he almost passes out when different ways to make money he sees his partner preparing a home for the woman different ways to make money he loves but he can’t allow them into consciousness; they will flood him). Notice his keen skills of observation. Feel that he is a "nice" guy and then says really harsh things.

Camille thinks he is good friends with her lover, his business associate, but stephan says he is only a partner. When you think you are friends with an entranced five, you better check it out. They are not as involved with you as you are different ways to make money with them. The same is true with stephan and camille. She is the aggressor, because even though he loves her, he keeps his distance. This is a special five loop that causes them much different ways to make money pain. People are attracted to them because of their sensitivity and different ways to make money intelligence. But they can be in love with their own constructs different ways to make money (camille says that music arouses stephan’s love, but he coolly replies, "music is a dream."). Like fours who are in love with their own emotions, fives are in love with their own understandings. This is the reality behind the metaphor of the ivory different ways to make money tower.

Fives have a long time-line. When robert mcnamarra confessed after 25 years that he knew different ways to make money full well the folly of vietnam, that our government had lied systematically and we had no different ways to make money chance of winning etc., people asked "why didn’t you tell us this back then?" part of the answer is understandable – passions were so high he would have been prosecuted, and unhealthy fives have a notion that people are going different ways to make money to prosecute them anyway if they get a chance. But part of the reason he waited is that fives different ways to make money often require a long time to process material. Fives hate surprises when entranced and they love privacy.

Fives are antisocial, not in their manners or even behavior. They see people as draining them. People are not an asset as much as a liability. The self-talk is that "I only have so many inner resources and as often different ways to make money as I interact with people, I am depleted. Not that people are bad, it’s just that they are draining. I’ve had fives describe themselves to me as a battery. They are drained by social interaction and recharged by solitude. A popular (and theologically awful) book of piety in the early part of this century different ways to make money was the catholic classic, thomas a kempis’, the imitation of christ. He said "as often as I go among men, I come back less a man." this was put forth as a call to contemplation, but it was just his preference as an entranced five.

• small group support is helpful. The group has to be small; it should keep the same members. The discussion of something like the enneagram is fruitful, but be careful; it could be entirely head talk and never include any different ways to make money sharing. Fives must learn to trust, then share. One of the ground rules must be that everything said different ways to make money in the group is under the rubric of confidentiality. Nothing said may be repeated outside the group without permission.

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