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DR. JOHN (1940-2019): in his best known song, mac rebennack was definitely in the ironic zone: “I was in the right place, but it must have been the wrong time/ I was sayin’ the right things, but I must have used the wrong line…” his persona was equally twisted. To new orleans creole lore, he added the spice of psychedelics. He wore mardi gras duds onstage. He invoked voodoo. Soon he was “dr. John the night tripper” — a kind of cajun jimi hendrix. He was fun. And not shallow. “refried confusion is making itself clear” — those six words will speak to many survivors of an good ways to make money fast earlier time. As a legacy? Those words will do. Click to listen.

Am I the last one here to see “rocketman?” probably. (if not, go! It’s compelling. And there is nothing else to see!) from what I’ve heard from friends, I suspect I’m the only one to have this reaction: I saw the film as a kid triumphing over child good ways to make money fast abuse. Consider: elton john’s father gave new meaning to “remote” — he refused to hug his son. His mother was obsessed with beauty and boyfriends. Elton was lucky: although his parents ignored him, his grandmother cared. She got him to a conservatory, where his genius as a pianist was recognized and nurtured. Later, his meteoric success made him vulnerable to sex, drugs and alcohol. But as we see in the rehab scenes, the real wounds occurred in childhood. I think that’s universal. The minute I saw that lost little boy I sensed good ways to make money fast this movie would have me sobbing; I knew that boy, I was that boy. Not because I was abused. I wasn’t. Not because I was remarkably talented. I’m not. But I wanted desperately to please my parents. To do that, I had to suppress my own values and adopt theirs. And their values worked; at a tender age, I was successful. It took me a lifetime to grow up and become good ways to make money fast myself. This is alice miller territory…

I had read “the drama of the gifted child,” and I brought it along when I went to interview good ways to make money fast jodie foster. I waited until we were talking about her childhood to good ways to make money fast bring it out. Then I opened it and read about bright children and good ways to make money fast insecure parents and the ability of those bright kids to good ways to make money fast figure out what their parents needed and be just that good ways to make money fast kind of kid for them in order to secure their good ways to make money fast ”love.” it’s fair to say I had jodie’s full attention.

If so, she got a surprise. Right in the beginning, alice miller says this is a personal book, more about herself than a theory of psychoanalysis. But she doesn’t talk about herself as a compliant child who became good ways to make money fast “inauthentic” to please her parents — she describes this process as “abuse.” not because she was beaten — she wasn’t. But because “I had no choice but to comply totally with the good ways to make money fast needs and feelings of my mother and to ignore my good ways to make money fast own.” the result, she says, was a powerful repression that kept her from knowing the good ways to make money fast truth about herself — for decades.

“many people suffer all their lives from this oppressive feeling good ways to make money fast of guilt, the sense of not having lived up to their parents’ expectations. This feeling is stronger than any intellectual insight they might good ways to make money fast have, that it is not a child’s task or duty to satisfy his parents’ needs. No argument can overcome these guilt feelings, for they have their beginnings in life’s earliest periods, and from that they derive their intensity and obduracy.”

I suspect if you read it — that is, if you skip the analytic language and esoteric commentary on good ways to make money fast her profession that fills at least half of the book good ways to make money fast — you will find yourself leaping from one mind-opening sentence to the next, piecing together, as I did, a take on your childhood that you haven’t considered or always resisted. [to buy the paperback from amazon, click here. For the kindle edition, click here.]

If so, you might ask yourself if you fit on miller’s grid of pathology. Do you feel depressed, lonely, fearful of losing everything? And, on the flip side, do you suffer from grandiosity — that is, a need for approval based only on accomplishment? Are you a perfectionist? Do you envy others? Are you oversensitive? Restless? Passionate about an ideology? Do you loathe those who are weaker than you? If so, congratulations — according to alice miller, you have achieved the “inauthentic” self that will keep the cycle of “abuse” going indefinitely.

Miller is not of great help in this; her contribution lies in her view of the problem. And you would do well to avoid her later writing good ways to make money fast — from here, it looks as if she comes to see “abuse” in every childhood. So read “drama of the gifted child,” pen in hand, for the big insights and the telling stories of the good ways to make money fast childhoods of ingmar bergman, balzac and henry moore.

My daughter and her friends have “streaks” on snapchat –– that is, they make it a point to post something every day, and when one of them goes on vacation, they assign a friend to keep up their streaks. I’m maintaining a streak at cassava house; if you’re in east harlem around 7:15 AM on weekdays, I’m the guy at the counter, buying croissants and kibitzing with the owner. The croissants are excellent, but the atmosphere is the lure. Antoine is the first person I talk with each day, and he’s up to the job: french, blazingly well-informed, appropriately ironic, not shy about teasing a smart response from his customers, who increasingly seem to know one another and, like me, welcome having a “local” for breakfast or lunch. Antoine’s menu is a unicorn in east harlem: not just smoothies and significantly good drip coffee, but sandwiches on 9-grain bread, salads with homemade balsamic vinegar, and an all-day breakfast of two eggs, salad and toast for a ridiculous $3. Free wifi. A garden with a wall-sized mural. Cassava house is at 2270 first avenue, between 116-117th streets. 7 AM to 7 PM.

“the cliche is that life is a mountain. You go up, reach the top and then go down. To me, life is going up until you are burned by flames. Life is an accomplishment, and each moment has a meaning and you must use good ways to make money fast it. Life is given to you like a flat piece of good ways to make money fast land and everything has to be done. I hope that when I am finished, my piece of land will be a beautiful garden, so there is a lot of work.”

“no, I don’t fall in love. I love differently. The word ‘fall’ is meaningless. Perhaps a ‘coup,’ to be hit by love, yes. But I’m more generous now. Passion is blind, and being blind you only see your own reflection in good ways to make money fast the eyes of others. Passion creates obstacles and pain that block what love is good ways to make money fast about. Love opens you up. It’s more generous, more fun. It’s less dark.”

Well, just generosity. And gratitude. The worst enemy in love is to be possessive. To think that things ought to last. Usually, to begin with, it’s an attraction, it’s passionate, and it’s violently … there’s a sort of … everything gets all mixed up. Sex, and the heart, and the mind. It’s a painful period. If you resent the fact that it doesn’t last, you think the other one is responsible. That’s where it becomes ugly. But you know, if you have a certain knowledge … people say that one should speak to each other. No! People shouldn’t speak too much. Some people speak too much. Words can destroy things … beyond words, if you know what I mean. As long as you don’t feel that the other one is responsible, as long as you don’t feel guilty, you can keep the relationship. Love is like a flower blooming and then it fades. That doesn’t mean that you can’t keep the same roots.

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